benwinstagram: Women who love men shouldn’t base their worth or live their lives following the...

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Women who love men shouldn’t base their worth or live their lives following the arbitrary things men say as guidance. A man will say he doesn’t like clingy women then say you’re too cold when he cuts it off because he’s now in a relationship. A man will say he wants a woman who’s chill (aka lets him do what he wants) but then get with someone else who ‘keeps him in line’, or he’ll say the exact opposite but you were somehow too difficult. He wants a woman who makes heads turn, but then feels insecure about the attention you get. You go to the gym, spend hundreds on makeup, and he cheats on you with someone that makes you go ‘why her?’ Because she does none of this, when you should really be asking why you ever put so much weight on what you think men want. Men are fickle. As Cher said, men are like desert, you love it, but it’s not necessary. Always put yourself first and do things for you. I’m not saying to be selfish or pretend you don’t want a relationship, but also in the words of that fake Adriana Lima quote a man will fuck a Mc chicken. You will find someone if that’s what you want just being you.