(3) At this point it’d been 6 years since we first met, and after our bad relationships ended we both admitted how our thoughts always went back to each other and wanted to give it a try. But aside from hooking up … they didn’t try. And they even dated around, had a few very short-term partners, but still wanted to hook up with me? And I was like, This isn’t what I meant about my feelings always returning to you…
(4) The last time they told me they wanted to finally try a real relationship, and actually seemed to be making an effort, I ended up getting a job in a different state (timing!!!!!!). They never talked to me about what they wanted in the situation beyond a vague “This is how our relationship is,” and then a few months later they started dating one of their exes AGAIN (they’d broken up like 5 times) and I realized they didn’t want me, just SOMEONE. And so yeah. That’s the end for me I think lol.
i didn’t get part 2 :( but that’s so….sad wtf i don’t understand!! why some people are so!! confusing!! like if you didn’t like me just tell me straight up, it’s exhausting having to go through all this :( i’m sorry you had to go through all this for 9 years, anon huhu people just don’t care enough about other people i don’t understand!!! why do people just use other people ugh