Why would it mean there is something wrong with the person???? I hate that mentality. There is nothing wrong with someone that doesn’t have experience. I don’t have it and I am 24 yo. And I hate that people might judge me for it. I really hate it. There is nothing wrong with me just because I haven’t had any romantic experience. I’m not damaged. Or bad news. Or whatever. And if a potential partner judges me for it, then they don’t deserve me.

i don’t know, i always have this fear that when you tell someone that you’ve had no serious relationship experience people will think that the reason you haven’t had one is because a) you’re either unable to commit and are used to sleeping around or b) no one was able to be serious with you because they found something wrong with you and left and so potential partners would be like “oh shit, i wonder what’s wrong with her/him” and just not pursue anything. i mean in an ideal world no one would judge anyone for not having experience but it does happen and i just wanted to know if it’s a common place happening