benwinstagram: If there’s one thing you children take away from following me I want you to know that...

benwinstagram:

If there’s one thing you children take away from following me I want you to know that you cannot make someone love you and you should not fight to. You are enough. If they aren’t giving you what you want, keep moving. There is no shortage of people on this planet. If you’re looking for love, you’ll find it. Maybe not next month or tomorrow, but it’s out there. You’re only hurting yourself. Stop making excuses to trap yourself in lovelessness. It’s a fear that no one else will love you keeping you there. They will.

And the most important thing? The reason for this? Rejection is not as scary as you think it is, in all aspects of life I want you to learn to take it and most importantly keep moving. Job interviews, telling your crush how you feel, fucking your party friend who won’t take you out to dinner like you want… if they don’t want you, keep your chin high and keep it moving. It wasn’t for you. They weren’t for you. It’s not always necessary to pick yourself apart thinking it’s something you lacked. It didn’t work out? It’s normal to feel sad. But so what? Keep moving.