because I’m suddenly angry
People always say that friendship should be effortless. That we have all our own shit to deal with, real friends should be able to understand that still be there after everything blows over.
I say, bullshit.
Make an effort. Even if it’s just to send a text to check up how they’re doing once a month, or a text apologizing not being able to come to whatever outing you had planned, or a simple fucking photo of a dumb meme.
Make an effort. Friendships are not effortless; it’s the product of people choosing each other everyday. You cannot be a friend to someone just when it’s convenient for you (of course, this does not mean you have to be present for someone 100% of the time, that’s impossible) but simple texts and messages will do. Let them know you’re thinking about them. Show up when you can, because this ensures that these people will show up for you when you need it.
Make an effort. Friendship is an investment.