in the end tho, if im talking to a guy i like or just anyone in general and telling them i havent had a relationship, i just make sure to communicate it in the best way possible and just say "its not bc i havent had the opportunity or that there was something wrong w me, just that i wasnt ready and never rly found someone that i wanted to date that badly anyway." not all of it is completely true ksdfj but i think thats pretty easy for ppl to understand in my experience

i should try that, rather than just answering their question straightforwardly and having them look at me like i’m some sort of unicorn sjdfslhs thank you for the tip! next time it comes up i’ll try and say it like this